The storm knocked out the power several months ago.

A branch from the silver poplar in the yard hit the wires.

“Should have been pruned back years ago,” the power company guy was saying that morning.

“Where do you want the wood?” he asked me.

I told him to pile it up over by the lower deck while I went to call the owner of the house and the trees in question.

Days later the owner came by, an older guy with a shy smile and a slow country walk, even here in the middle of town.

“Let’s leave it there,” he said. “I want most of it for my stove and heater this winter, but you keep some of it for the fireplace. I’ll come by and get it in a couple of months.”

I said thanks and left the wood where it lay.

The rains came early this year. The pile sat below the hill and while it was in a good place to dry in the summer sun, it was now getting more wet with the hard rain that falls steady here during the fall and winter.

No sign of the owner or his crew, no response to several messages to come and get the wood. Seemed a good time to move the pile out of the weather.

I picked up the first round. Oak, I think — heavy like oak, anyway — and moved across the deck to a spot under the stairs. Walked back and did it again. I moved steadily, if slowly, over the afternoon.

The wood pile became a stack of rounds piled under the stairs, lit up by the now setting sun.

I was tired and sore. I’m not used to hauling wood rounds much these days. I ate some soup and went to lie down on the couch. I turned on the Jazz Show on the local NPR station. After awhile I got up to light a fire in the fireplace, using kindling from last year and several pieces of the summer wood.

The fire caught. I lay back down, listening as Chick Corea returned from nowhere on the radio. I smiled at the idea of smoke drifting across this particular room. It seemed, well, almost holy.

I awoke much later in the cold, dark, early morning. The smell of burnt oak and poplar in the room, and maybe sage from a long lost Cheyenne prayer relic, caused me to wonder where I was.

Who was this old man whose back hurt and whose arms were sore as if he had worked all day in the woods, setting choker in the first growth cedar out by Poets Nook on the Alberni Canal? Where was the sound of the ocean as it broke on the reefs in the outer channel and washed up on the beach, nearly a hundred yards away? Where was the Franklin with the dented kettle on the burner, steaming slowly into the quiet breathing of his sleeping newborn son, and his own coming days of fatherhood?

I went to sleep in my bed then, as if it had all been a dream.

Photo Credits

“Woodpile” rachaelvoorheees @ flickr. Creative Commons. Some rights reserved.

We drove up Highway 101. It was a Friday, the day before Valentine’s Day.

Friends, poets in town, had offered us their vacation home for the weekend. I guess he was some kind of nuclear physicist at Berkeley, with an interest in amber and disease DNA molecules and she, a poet of note, although by and large, incomprehensible to me.

We passed by the town of Gualala and noticed the big hotel there. It was then fronted by an old-style western portico with filigree and framed windows backed by lace curtains, visible and inviting from the road for its warm light from within.

I can’t remember if we went in that night and had the roast beef dinner. Maybe it was on the way back. It was good though, as was the Yorkshire Pudding, a dish I have never understood, nor really known  how — or more precisely, why — to eat.  I’ve been told that gravy helps.

We arrived, unpacked, made love, fell asleep, woke up, wrote some words and went for a walk. We weren’t talking much those days. In fact, we were both aware that whatever had been shining and sweet was drifting away in the distances between our homes, our aspirations, our decidedly different ways of life.

We had been friends for many years — “since the revolution,” as we joked to friends. In our forties we got together, a fishing trip in Baja did the trick and for a while it seemed we had both found the way home, a way to be together that worked, was shared, that grew.

Along the cove outside the house, the ocean spray over the rocks rose and receded, leaving a sparkling landscape, bare and sandy beach, treed up the cliff, bent in the wind and glowing in the back light of mid morning. We wandered down to the shore and along, kicking sand and talking from time to time, identifying the flora. Although now I can’t tell you what was there, only that it seemed strangely serene in what was a rough and gnarled environment.

A path led us up the cliff face to a stand of trees, madrone, I think, and of course, the coastal pines. We set out along the path at the top, away from the ocean, and came upon a house in the woods. Cedar shaked, falling down, gray and weathered, it stood among the pines with a tired but somehow sturdy appearance.

We went inside, the door being open and it being clearly abandoned. We each went to various rooms, separately, an unspoken team reconnaissance, aimed at coming back together with findings of interest. The kitchen was deserted entirely as, in fact, was the back room, which seemed like it must have been the bedroom.

We met up in the living room, both of us astonished, maybe chagrined, not to have seen that there was no roof on the living room. We had not seen that “feature” from outside. A large river stone fireplace stood long unused against a wall. It was filled with blown branches and weeds. As we looked through the open roof to a wondrous blue sky we noticed mist and small puff balls blowing across the opening. The ocean was a distant rumble, a complex counterpoint to the wind in the pines and the squeaking of the loose boards in what was once a window box.

Holding hands, we looked around. In the far corner, we spotted an old Pressback kitchen chair, weathered gray like the shakes outside, and worn through in the seat.

I went over to get it and brought it back to the center of the room. We both walked around it, re-adjusting it according to some unknown feng shui. Still holding hands, we sat down, she on my lap, my leg braced sturdy to the floor.

We sat that way for a what seemed a long while. Comfortably together. Quiet. The sun moved across the meridian, afternoon came upon us. Eventually we got up and headed back to our vacation home. It was getting dark, later in the day than we thought.

“That place had something to it, no?” she said. It seemed wistful, pregnant.

“Yes, it did, ” I said after awhile. “I suppose we could fix the roof.”

“And ruin the view?”

She went to the table in the kitchen, pulled out her notebook and began to write.

Later she looked up from the notebook, gazed out through the window to the darkening ocean sky and said, “Not much point to doing that now.”

I pulled out some eggs from the refrigerator, cut up some local shallots and mushrooms and made omelets for dinner.

Photo Credits

“When your mind’s made up” piermario @ flickr. Creative Commons. Some rights reserved.

A friend and I were having dinner when we heard the news that Frank Sinatra had died earlier that day.

She said something about how she never got it, the Sinatra thing. That her mother always went on about him, sang his songs on car trips and like that. I didn’t say anything to that. We ate and drank a little, talked about the day.  I went into the other room to put another disc on the player. Without much thinking about it I pulled In The Wee Small Hours Of The Morning off the rack. The CD, with its Hopper-like illustrated case, pictured Sinatra leaning sad against a backdrop a block away from the Boulevard of Broken Dreams. It looked like it always had. Perfect. I put it on.

Even now when I hear his voice, I can smell dinner on the stove and I know that my father is on the way home. My mother is singing softly, “It’s a quarter to three, there’s no one in place… .”  It was like that every day for years. It was safe and it was mine. Years later I realized that the song itself wasn’t sweet, it was sad. It was the end of things. I didn’t know precisely what a soundtrack was or how it influences the moment, and equally the memory, but it surely did.

I had seen Frank Sinatra in black and white movies on the Dumont TV in the dining room. From Here to Eternity, The Man with The Golden Arm, High Society. He was…cool. And it turns out, everything I thought I would become. I knew that there was sadness inside his music, even in his more popular AM radio hits that played all day long. I couldn’t have said that at the time. What I did know was that his voice told me a lot about who I thought I was. About my own sadness, and oddly my curiosity about what being a man would be like.

I used to listen to Make Believe Ballroom every Saturday morning, a radio show from Philadelphia. “Learnin’ The Blues” was a big hit that year. I lay safely under the covers as I imagined that I knew what it meant to be learning the blues.

I was pretty sure that if I could learn the blues, that “ol’ low down mystery,” (that’s what the DJ called it), I would be a man, all grown up. And when I grew up, I would “walk the floor til”  I  “wore out my shoes”. It was romantic, like a movie, but like a movie it seemed right. It was what men did. That and work all day, come home to eat, and go into the study, close the door, work some more and do it all over again the next day. Well, it was what my Dad did. Or at least that’s how I remember it.

I saw A Walk in the Sun with Dana Andrews when I was very young, maybe eight or nine. The troops land in Sicily and walk up a farm road to take a German-held farmhouse. Andrews is a lieutenant who keeps trying to write a letter to his sister. He can’t seem to finish it, to say it right.

“Dear Frances…,” he says several times, his voice trailing off. The platoon arrives at the farmhouse; the men are hidden behind a centuries old stonewall. The sun gets higher and higher. They go over the wall. The farmhouse is taken and it is not yet noon.

“Dear Frances,” Andrew’s voice comes over the scene of the bodies lying in the sun in this foreign place, the survivors gathering up and getting ready to move on. That’s also what men did. They went to war, they didn’t say much, they took care of business and they got on with things.

“Dear Frances,” he says. “We took a farmhouse today. It was easy.” Only it wasn’t easy, and it never happens that way. Even I could see that.

Long before I left home my mother stopped cooking as she had. Her soft singing gave way to the constant sound of a classical radio station. She lay on the living room couch most of the day, watching the door. She waited for him to come home from work, all the time getting weaker as her heart gave out.

Every evening during the school year, when my father walked through the door there was dinner ready, wrenched from what dwindling energy she could gather in a day. He came through the door and told her about his day, who did what to whom and how the Dean sabotaged this or that. I set the table, watched the Mets lose, washed the dishes, picked on my younger sister.

Often my mother stayed on the couch during dinner, exhausted by the day. The classical music station played on.

My 14-year-old head was filled with images of lost highways and dead-end midnight dreams, of broken phone calls from far away places, in black and white with fog on the tarmac. Elvis Presley replaced Sinatra for me as did Jerry Lee Lewis, Little Richard, Sam Cooke and The Drifters.

It was a different world, made up of nuclear nightmares and feverish daydreams about red headed girls in Geometry. Even though Sinatra was not as evident, Ol’ Blue Eyes still had his hold on me. I knew more about loss by then; certainly I was aware of being afraid, of being uncomfortable, of being outside looking in. It wasn’t his lyrics, they were mostly sappy to my emerging existential self. It was still that thing in his voice.

Sometimes I would take the bus to the Idlewild, now Kennedy airport, just to listen to the flights being called; “Pan Am 3, Paris, Istanbul, Cairo.” I turned my collar up like John Wayne in The High and the Mighty and snuck out on to the tarmac. I always imagined I saw a single horn player with a battered leather case, shuffling slowly to the plane through the fog swirling on the runway, pulling me along to somewhere unknown, a place just beyond my reach.

Elvis and Benny King were in my head, this long before Walkman and iPod. It seemed that everything was far off, magical, a “rose in Spanish Harlem”, glimpsed but never taken, that life was elsewhere. I couldn’t wait. The music spoke of broken dreams and lost love and sex and every word seemed meant only for me. Get on with it, kid, it seemed to say, time’s winged chariot ain’t waitin’ at no station.

Nearly every night for most of my late teens and early 20s I had dreams of a battlefield grave, a rifle bayonet in the ground with dog tags and an empty helmet hanging down from the rifle stock. There was a single horn playing Taps. I always woke up in a cold sweat, cotton-mouthed and resigned. I woke up before I was close enough to read the name on the tags.

When my mother died I was in another country, on another coast. When I went home for the funeral with my own 10-year-old son, the classical music station was off and the study door was still closed.

I no longer wonder what happened to my childhood’s lonesome highway, to the bloodied heroes and the feverishly imagined manhood where the bars are still open at a quarter to three and morning is a distant fire streaked across the sky. Where the neon in the darkness offers promise that shit will turn to gold and the door will open and my Dad and I will talk together.

Cocaine and whiskey have taught me what I needed to know. Taught me that it isn’t easy and that it never happens that way.

Sinatra’s voice cuts across our wee hours from the other room. He is still walking the floor, she is still gone, whoever she was.

Two nows, 40 years apart. My friend and I dance slow and close, keeping time together. Under a cold spring moon our shadows play across the kitchen wall.

Photo Credits

Photos of Franks Sinatra, courtesy of WikiCommons

“Flaming Highway” WTL Photos @ flickr. Creative Commons. Some rights reserved.